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Wedding Vows template

Written by the Toast Worthy speech team · Updated August 2026

The short answer

Copy the fill-in-the-blank wedding vows template below, drop in your own details, then read it aloud and trim to 3–5 minutes. Prefer it done for you? The writer turns your answers into a finished speech.

Wedding Vows speech template

1. Why you fell for them (be specific)
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2. A small, true detail only you two share
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3. The promises you're making
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4. How you'll show up in the hard times
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5. A closing line that lands
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The template, filled in

Worked example~4 min · 149 words

Getting to speak about Jordan today is a real honour — and, if I'm honest, a small act of revenge for every speech they never had to give about me.

I'm not going to promise you a perfect life, Jordan. I'm going to promise you me — all in, paying attention, choosing you on the good days and especially on the hard ones.

For all the ribbing, there's a reason I'd walk over hot coals for Jordan, and it's this.

Jordan completes Jordan, which is a lovely way of saying they now finish the sentences Jordan could never be bothered to.

The best kind of love doesn't sweep you off your feet so much as steady them, and that's exactly what Jordan and Jordan have found.

Please stand and join me in wishing these two a marriage as brilliant as the party they've thrown us. To Jordan and Jordan.

Frequently asked questions

How do I fill in a wedding vows template?+

Answer each line with one specific detail — a real memory, a true quality, an actual toast. Resist generic phrases; the specifics are what make it yours.

Is a wedding vows template enough?+

A template gives you the bones. To make it sing you still need your own stories and a read-aloud edit — or let a guided writer assemble it from your answers.

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