Groom Speech quotes

Written by the Toast Worthy speech team · Updated August 2026

The short answer

The best groom speech use no more than one quote — placed just before the toast, right after your own story. Below are hand-picked quotes by theme, with how to use them so they still sound like you, not a fortune cookie.

Your quotes should point at your partner, not the ceiling. Use one to say the thing you feel but can't quite phrase.

Quotes about love

For the heartfelt turn — the moment you stop joking and mean it.

“You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”— Dr. Seuss
“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”— Emily Brontë
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”— Aristotle
“To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.”— David Viscott
“Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.”— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
“The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.”— Audrey Hepburn
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”— Lao Tzu

Quotes about marriage & commitment

Perfect for the run-up to your toast.

“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”— Mignon McLaughlin
“A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.”— Pearl S. Buck
“Grow old with me! The best is yet to be.”— Robert Browning
“Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up.”— Joseph Barth
“There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship than a good marriage.”— Martin Luther
“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”— Friedrich Nietzsche

Funny quotes to open with

Land one of these early to win the room — then get sincere.

“Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow internet to see who they really are.”— Will Ferrell
“My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.”— Rodney Dangerfield
“Love is telling someone to go to hell and worrying about them getting there safely.”— Traditional saying
“I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.”— Rita Rudner
“Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?”— Groucho Marx

Quotes about family & letting go

For parents of the bride or groom, and anyone speaking as family.

“The love of a family is life's greatest blessing.”— Traditional saying
“To us, family means putting your arms around each other and being there.”— Barbara Bush
“You don't marry someone you can live with — you marry the person you cannot live without.”— Traditional saying
“A daughter may outgrow your lap, but she will never outgrow your heart.”— Traditional saying
“Children are the anchors that hold a mother to life.”— Sophocles

How to use a quote without sounding cheesy

•Use one, not five. A single quote is a highlight; a string of them is a filler.
•Say your own story first — the quote should confirm a point you've already made about the couple.
•Introduce it casually: "There's a line I keep coming back to…" beats reading it cold.
•Follow it instantly with one specific detail about the couple, so the timeless line meets a real one.
•Read it aloud. If it doesn't sound like something you'd say, cut it or shorten it.

Frequently asked questions

Should you use a quote in a groom speech?+

One, at most — and only if it earns its place. A borrowed line works best as the hinge into your heartfelt moment or your toast, right after your own story. A speech built entirely from quotes sounds like a greetings card; one well-placed quote sounds wise.

Where should the quote go?+

Near the end. Tell your true story first, then use the quote to lift into the sincere turn — "Someone once said… and watching these two, I finally get it." Land it, then toast.

How do you make a famous quote sound like your own?+

Introduce it with a personal line, keep it short, and follow it immediately with something specific about the couple. The contrast between a timeless line and one real detail about them is what makes it land.

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