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Short maid of honour speech: how to nail it in 2–3 minutes

Written by the Toast Worthy speech team · Updated August 2026

The short answer

A short maid of honour speech is 2–3 minutes — around 250–400 words. Keep exactly one story, one laugh or heartfelt line, and a strong toast. Cut everything else. Full short example below.

A short maid of honour speech example

Short (2–3 min)~2 min · 188 words

Today isn't just about celebrating Alex and Jordan; it's about all of us pretending we knew they were perfect for each other the whole time.

I'm Sam, Alex's sister, and I've had the front-row seat for most of the good stuff.

The first time I really understood who Alex was, we'd both been sent to our rooms, and Alex slid a note under my door that just said 'worth it'. Loyal to the cause, even at seven.

Which is a long way of saying that behind all the mischief, Alex is one of the good ones.

Alex promised Jordan the world today. Just a heads-up: Alex also promised to help me move flats in 2016, so temper the expectations.

There's a particular kind of luck in finding the person who feels like coming home, and Alex and Jordan have it.

And then Jordan came along. I've never seen Alex happier or more themselves — steadier, softer, quicker to laugh. Jordan, you are so obviously the one.

Here's to a couple who make the rest of us look bad and somehow still get invited back. To Alex and Jordan.

How short is too short?

LengthWordsBest for
2 minutes~260 wordsOne story, one laugh, a toast. Great for a big wedding party.
3–4 minutes~400–520 wordsThe sweet spot: a story, a tease, a heartfelt turn, a toast.
5 minutes~650 wordsThe maximum before a room gets restless. Don't go over.

Frequently asked questions

How many words is a 2-minute maid of honour speech?+

About 260 words at a relaxed pace. A 3-minute speech is roughly 400 words. Count your words and time a read-through to be sure.

What can I cut to keep a maid of honour speech short?+

Keep one story, one laugh or heartfelt line, and the toast. Cut second stories, long thank-you lists, and any joke that needs setup. Brevity reads as confidence.

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